How to create your dream reality (2023)

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Listen, my love I, am sick and tired of you.

Okay, you can't come to me constantly complaining about how you're not able to change your life you're, not able to live that dream life of yours, you're, not able to change your reality, whatever.

But then at the same time, you're constantly helping other people to achieve their dreams you're constantly helping other people to like change their reality.

But when it comes to you it's hard that is just plain embarrassing.

And you do not behave like that.

Okay, especially as my friend like you guys are my friends, and you guys are behaving like this I'm embarrassed.

I am embarrassed please please.

And in this video I will show you how you can change your reality.

What you need to do in order to change that reality to shift it.

And to actually do something with your life enough at least I cannot do it.

This I'm unlucky, no you're, lazy, gotta have the discipline.

Yeah and don't be like, oh, no.

It's only lucky people lucky whatever honey, I was not lucky.

I was not born.

Lucky.

I was born poor, very poor.

Yeah.

And I completely changed my reality, why because I had to discipline the belief to do it I I, don't want to be at the top on my own because it's Lonely at the Top I need you guys there with me.

So together we can evolve this channel is for you.

So together we're gonna go to the next level, and you are gonna take notes and you're gonna listen.

Alright, guys.

My name is Liz and welcome back to my channel.

Okay, let's get right into it.

Okay.

So first things first, listen, people are building spaceships.

People are becoming billionaires.

People are becoming multi-millionaires.

People are having like a good income.

Normal job.

People are literally making money off the dumbest things people having the best relationships.

And you you can't, even fix your little simple life.

You think you think that is not like you cannot do that.

So all these people they can be the most extraordinary crazy things, but you can't, fix your simple life.

Yeah, you can't even find a normal job.

Yeah, yeah.

You can't even find a person that texts you back or that actually like appreciates.

And loves you, oh, okay.

Well, that's embarrassing.

I need to first to start realizing the world is huge.

The universe is huge God is Big.

He did not put you on this Earth.

So you could not do anything with your life that is not your purpose.

Honey.

You can do much much more, but you have to start believing that you actually can.

And then look at people for inspiration.

Look at other.

People, don't be jealous of them.

Look at them for inspiration and thinking of yourself like, wow.

This guy he can build spaceship.

Maybe you know, I can just find like a normal job that I love.

Maybe I can follow my passion.

Maybe I can like find a partner that I want and build the family that I want.

Maybe I can have a stable Foundation.

Once you are inspired by these people.

You will realize that, oh my God, like, you know what people can do big things so I can fix my simple life for a minuscule we're.

So like pathetic, you know, even when you ask God, you have to ask God for the biggest thing because honestly sometimes I, ask God for things I think God is even embarrassed he's like really this.

You think that's small.

Then the second thing after you have realized that you can ask for a lot of things.

And what you do, you need to answer questions for yourself.

Okay.

We need to get really specific on what reality do.

We want to create example, right? I came from a very poor, uh childhood.

And basically for me ever since I was a child.

My one important thing was I need to be stable.

The partner that is with me also needs to be financially stable I want to make a lot of money.

I want him to make enough money.

I don't care about like millions of millions, but just good enough, and then, um I need to have stable, uh households and a stable.

Uh childhood for my children.

That was my focus and I was like that's.

The kind of reality, I want I want to have a passionate job that I'm passionate about I want to make money I want to be able to support my family I want to look really good I want to love myself I want to heal myself from the inside out I want to go to therapy that's.

The kind of reality I want to be in that's, the kind of woman I want to then also I start to think about.

Okay.

What kind of partner do I want? And once I, literally wrote down the kind of partner, I want and I had never done this before I, literally, attracted him and met the exact person that I wrote down so I'm, telling you once you write things down, you manifest them and it's.

Crazy.

I want you to answer these questions? Yeah, okay.

First of all.

What reality do I want to create first question.

Second question, question, who do I look up to like look up to people that you like their lifestyle you like you don't have to block I want their life I want to be them.

No you get inspiration from their lifestyle, you know how we get inspiration if we're decorating our home from Pinterest and all these things.

Well, the same way you look at a person think, oh okay, I, for example, I even like their haircuts or I like this that.

And it can be different people.

But who do you look up to then you write down? What is a behavior that you need to change about yourself in order for you to attract that reality that you want? What is the behavior that you need to change example, I I was struggling with an eating disorder, I had bulimia.

And in my reality, the highest version of me she didn't have that she didn't have that eating disorder so I needed to work on fixing that and I needed to work on fixing my eating disorder because I I was not gonna be my reality I was not to suffer from it.

Then what's a new habit that you would like to create and the last, but the most important thing ever.

What is one thing that I can focus on right now? See the human brain is incredible.

Yeah, we do not like too much Choice I'm reading this book right now it's called the art of thinking clearly.

And basically it talks about how when we are giving too much Choice the brain paralyzes and just doesn't make a decision at all.

And we really get stressed off of it.

So you decide for yourself, okay, all of these things, yeah that I listed that I want for for this new reality.

What is some one thing that I can focus on right now and I promise you? Once you focus on that one thing all the rest will follow follow.

The leader leader example, I joined the gym recently.

And when I joined the gym it's like a personal training program ever since I joined the gym like all the other issues like, um, not socializing like not feeling confident anymore, like uh, really like having kind of like an isolated, uh depression.

They went.

They went because I decided to focus on that one thing and then all the rest of it follows.

So you decide, okay.

What do I start with do I start with my physical appearance.

Do I start healing.

My mental health do I start, um with uh, not allowing toxic people in my life anymore.

And then I swear, or do I start like going out a little more everything will fall into place.

Another thing is the illusions of Life see we as humans, we like to create meaning out of something we always like to look for patterns and have meaning in them.

For example, if we look, uh at the clouds, right, we will see a certain shape in the clouds we're like, oh, my God.

This is a sign.

This is whatever right, no, sometimes things are just things and they're, not like a pattern or whatever in the same way that you guys say like, oh, I'm, just unlucky I have like I constantly attract like unluckiness.

No, you don't.

You have, uh, you have good days and bad days and that's that's.

Just it you're, not unlucky stop telling yourself that you're unlucky see the same way I grew up in a I'm, a Muslim right? So we believe in evil eye.

Now, the issue with this is constantly whenever something would happen like I would get a rash on my face or I would fall down the stairs I like constantly I would think like, oh my God.

Then this is evil eye.

This evil, eye, I'm getting evil eye.

But now I like completely changed my thinking and I was like no I do not get evil eye I like only what I allow will happen.

This is my reality and I allow what comes in.

And what goes out walk away from things and people that are not good for you.

You have to start thinking.

Does this person add to the reality that I want to create for myself? Do they fit into that reality? Hmm.

Okay.

So this person is always putting me down.

This person is not giving me any love.

This person is toxic.

No okay, cut Cuts I, want them out because I'm trying to create my my reality here.

These people cannot come with me.

Sometimes you get even tested about how bad you want it by, um having these people in your life.

And really when you cut them off God, gives you something so much better, but that's, because you showed him I trust, you I don't care like how much I want this person in my life or how much this person makes me feel comfortable or how much these things makes me come feel comfortable I'm gonna cut it off.

So so I can show you I trust you and you'll give me something better.

Some people are not meant to be with the highest version of you.

Some people are not meant to go to your highest reality with you.

Then you think always does this action support the reality that I'm trying to create, for example, right? If you say, Okay, I want to make my own money and I want to have a partner that makes their own money and I want us to be a stable couple a really good couple right? Then you keep dating people that have no work ethic.

You keep dating people that don't want to work and literally, uh, basically, don't want to do anything, but live off of other people.

You have to think to yourself if I continue doing this.

Then this action will not support the reality that I want because you're contradicting yourself, you cannot say this is what I I want and do the complete opposite thing and expect this to happen or you're trying to create a reality where you want people to respect you, or you want, uh to inspire people, whatever, but you keep people pleasing to a point where nobody respects you or you keep like making letting people make a joke out of you not standing up for yourself, where are we going? What reality is that because we're going backwards? Honey, become your own biggest investment, see I, I feel like when when people say this they're like, oh, my God, you're.

So selfish, no, honey, no, because when we invest in you guys, when we give you guys, everything and we're constantly pour into other people, then that's, fine, yeah.

And they completely drain us.

We're left with no energy for ourselves.

That's all okay, but don't.

You dare don't you dare do that for yourself because that's a really you're a bad person.

Oh, you need to start investing in yourself.

You need to start investing yourself whether it's your physical looks like your skin, your hair, your body and the food you put in your body, then your mental therapy.

Um, if you cannot afford Therapy, Journal, Journal, Shadow work, questions, write them down, it's like therapy.

And what I'm gonna do for you guys I'm gonna start a podcast I'm, gonna start a podcast where I invite, uh, every time I go to therapy I just have my therapy sessions on the podcast.

So you guys can follow with me, and you guys can get free therapy because I know therapy is expensive.

I was uh like at a time on a point where I couldn't afford therapy I, totally understand it.

But now that I can I'm gonna share that with you guys, even though I have to put my personal business, online, that's, okay, but I realized that the more you invest in yourself, the more you level you up and the closer you get to that reality and the more other people who respect you I like, how can you not respect a person that thinks they're worthy of their own Investments? How can you not respect that as in you see like someone with a really nice car right? And they always clean it it's always clean from inside from the outside it's, really well, taken care of then people would say like, oh, my God that person that guy or that girl really loves their car well do that for yourself too because the same way you're gonna invest in yourself people can tell that you are a person that loves himself.

Okay.

Another thing.

And this is the most important.

One of the most important is make your words match your actions.

I do not want to hear.

Oh, no, Liz.

I, tried, but I couldn't.

Do it? What did you try? What did you try because why are we having this conversation right now? Hmm? Why did you stop? So you tried once, and then you stopped and that's, fine.

My sister.

She told me recently, she's like Liz, the reason that you are so successful is because when you want something and you say, I'm gonna do it you actually do it and she's like everything you preach on your YouTube and everything you actually do that like you're really authentic to your words, I am when I say that I am gonna do something I will do it I do not care that's.

What divides the successful from the unsuccessful people, a lot of my uh, successful friends that I know we all had the same mindset.

We want to do something that is good.

Of course we actually do it.

We do not care whether we will fail at it or succeed.

We don't know the outcome.

We only know that we can take the action to go towards.

Okay.

So you have to have this mindset.

The most unsuccessful people they have this mindset like, oh, no that's too much risk.

Oh, no, I won't, be able to do it.

Oh, no.

They could do it, but I couldn't.

Do it? Whatever? Um, yeah, that's how you never try anything.

And where do we end up? Then I think the most beautiful thing in life is trying new things then failing and then trying something else like at least you're living if you're not trying anything and you're just following a constant thing and not doing anything outside of the box like how boring is that? Okay, this is a good one.

This is have the wizard mindset.

Okay? What is the wizard mindset? The wizard mindset is basically believing that you're, a wizard like like thinking, you're a magician.

So for example, if you say like I want this, oh, and you have it I genuinely believe that anything I want will happen as long as I accept my man to it.

It will happen.

There is no other way.

I'm.

Just a wizard I.

Am a wizard I want you guys to be Wizards I want you guys to think of yourself as I'm a wizard? Why should it not happen? I'm a wizard anything I asked for I will receive if I ask God for something I receive it I, you know, even I'm so delusional I, literally think, okay, like tonight I'm gonna ask God like, uh, first, be thankful for everything that I have I'm very grateful by the way I'm a very grateful person and that's.

Also, why I think that I keep attracting blessings because I am grateful.

And so basically then I.

Thank God for everything I have.

And then I say, God, please give me this blah, blah, two days.

Max two days, max I have it without a doubt be willing to be cringy.

Okay, listen I.

Did something that goes against my things I basically went, uh, like a week ago.

Uh, I was searching something.

And all of a sudden I saw like a link of uh Reddit.

And it was about me so I click on it, of course, read it lovely place so many positive, people, um.

And on the thing they were basically saying that I am a narcissist I, encourage cheating and basically gold digging to the core and uh, then this.

Uh, also, compared me to like people that are, you know and I was reading all the comments and then everybody's like yeah, she's so cringy, she's.

So like, uh, embarrassing, she so whatever blah blah and then I was like, oh, no.

That must have heard my lungs, honey, I might be embarrassing, but I'm paying my mama's bills.

Okay, yeah.

I am literally taking care of the people that I love and I am able to do that because I am embarrassing to you.

And what are you doing just already? Yeah, I don't like her to be willing to be cringy.

Yeah, in life.

When when we make certain changes when we start changing, how we allow people to treat us when we start changing our other appearance, when we start like doing anything really to level, our life up, people will start telling you that you're cringy or you're, embarrassing or you're doing too much like calm down and it's like it's they're, just speaking out of jealousy like honestly, you know, because they don't believe they can do it themselves.

So you have to be willing to take that little hit because at the end it's gonna pay off thing is, sometimes you need to be alone to be able to create your dream reality to be able to level up.

Why do I say this see when you are an empathic person or you're, a highly sensitive person like I? Am? Um people like me, We tend to when we we are around people.

Our natural default is to help them.

Even though they didn't ask, they didn't mean to we constantly want to help them, and we pour so much into them.

And we do this even without realizing, yeah.

But what happens then is we don't have energy left for ourselves anymore.

So we are helping these people create their reality.

We are helping these people accomplish their dreams.

But we are keep.

We are being drained.

So for me, I became so depressed.

Whilst I was doing that with my partner I've been doing that for like the last eight months with my partner for like the last eight months with my partner, without even realizing it that I was literally like okay, I need to take a step back like I, literally need to be on my own right now and I need to focus on Liz.

And what this Liz wants and I swear, like the moment I started being on my own like my creative ideas came back.

My passion for my job came back.

Even if you see my other videos like I, completely lost passion for this and I love talking to you guys, I used to see you guys as like my family.

And then it became like I, literally came to a point where I was like I don't.

Wanna I cannot even get myself to film that just shows how much of my energy was being drained and that's.

Why I'm saying, sometimes you need to be alone in order for you to create that reality in order for you to get to that next level.

Another thing is start unlearning what they taught you listen start on learning what your parents thought you start on learning with your teachers, talking start on learning what your culture has taught you what they were telling you was what was a reality for them in their life, that's, what what they believe for themselves that doesn't have to be your reality, honey.

It doesn't have to be.

You have the chance to do things differently.

Now you have the chance to actually take your power and say like, okay, maybe that was your reality.

And that was the reality I was born into, but that's, not how I'm gonna leave this Earth I'm, Gonna, Leave, This, Earth, having lived my reality.

And in reality I created for myself, and you cannot blame them for teaching you those things because that's, the only thing they knew, but you should start educating yourself on your own stuff, create your own opinions about life start to look out for yourself, what the best ways are to approach your life and how you want to live it.

So you can live it for like with yourself authentically.

So you don't have to like when when you're old like regret your life, because you feel like you live for someone else, no, honey, live for yourself.

I, promise, you I, promise you.

If someone had told me, this you're gonna you're gonna be old.

Yeah, eight years old, look back at your life and say, I live for someone else.

I would have told them kill me right now right now, because that will not be my reality, don't.

Let other people influence your opinion.

See opinions change.

We we constantly we're growing.

We learn that's.

Normal, yeah.

But what I mean by this is, we are very influenced by other people.

So this is normal because our primates for uh, we we literally followed the crowd because we, uh, we needed to stick together in order to survive.

Right? But now what happens is, for example, you watch a video right? You have an opinion about this video.

Then you start.

And you go through the comments, and you see totally different opinion from the one you had and I use your your opinion starts to get influenced by them.

You can't allow that to happen, because that just means that you're easily manipulated.

What you can do is look at other people's opinions.

Look at what they think that you should do or whatever look at them and say, like okay, that's your opinion.

You can have an opinion, but I rather stick to my own and I, try on my own.

And if I fail at it, whatever, yeah, then I learned from it, but it's my opinion and it's.

What I'm gonna do ask to be guided ask for signs asks for help from God I, promise, you I, promise you.

This works.

This literally worked I've said, this in one of my videos about manifesting that people should ask for Science and literally I have my DMs were flirted with people that did, and they got so many signs they they asked for to see like this that.

And they they saw all these things it's.

Incredible.

You guys need to start speaking to God or to a higher source that you believe in like when you guys like need something or talk to them like a friend and say, like, hey, I need this like.

Thank you so much for providing me with everything that I need you to help me with this.

Please I need you because like they will like whoever you believe in they will help you I promise you every friend that I've told to do this everyone.

They were shocked like Liz.

They were like this advice is golden.

Look.

What I would suggest you ask is God.

Please give me whatever is meant for my highest good God.

Please remove people that don't have the best intentions with me from my life God.

Please guide me towards my path and show me signs of what I need to do.

If you believe in the universe, you can ask the universe, whatever you believe in it doesn't have to be God, whatever, but I promise, you I prompt you this works last, but not least is be disciplined.

Okay.

You need to have consistency over Perfection.

We don't need Perfection.

Nothing is perfect in life.

Yeah.

And if we're gonna strive for Perfection We're, not gonna get anywhere you're, not gonna do anything because the the first business you create will not be perfect.

The first person you ever date will probably also not be perfect.

The first gym session will probably not be perfect, but at least we have the consistency to keep going because we're, not striving for Perfection.

We are striving for consistency to eventually get to our goal.

Do not look at people and think like, oh, my God they're at this age they're so much further than me.

I should have been there, no, honey, it's, you versus you.

You do not look at these other people.

The only way you look at other people is if you want inspiration from them and you're like okay, fine like if they can do it I can do it too, but we don't look and compare it and be like Oh age this, and that you never know what what like God has for you.

You don't know what it what is in store for you? You know, so maybe you're thinking and things like, oh, my life should be like complete like this.

But you were meant to have a much bigger life.

So you're limiting yourself.

So only look at like little Inspirations and like focus on you it's.

You your dream person is you so I know, you guys can do it because literally like I told you I'm, not going to the top alone, honey, I, don't want to be there, unless you think like, oh, my God I, have no friends.

No, no, no, no, no I need my little Wizards with me at the top and we're gonna do this together we're gonna heal together we're gonna level up together, we're gonna recognize our work together and we're just going to the next next level.

Thank you so much for watching guys, I, love, you guys.

So so so much and yeah, I see you in the next video bye-bye.